Tag: asperger

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Topic 2 : Sociability – Eye Contact

Hello everyone, sorry for taking so long in this new article but i have been quite bussy lately in my own personal projects, because yep, also aspies have projects.

Today i want to talk about a topic that might probably be one of the hardest to deal with as an asperger and that is: social issues.
This is a wide topic, so im going to divide it in different posts. Today we’ll start with eye contact.

Eye contact to me is really hard and i couldnt understand why, because other psicologists said that it was because i was only shy and one of them actually suggested that instead of seeing the eyes of a person, i stared and the middle of their brows to make it easier, that really didnt help.

Eye contact is like if i was staring beyond a person’s physique, its like staring at their soul..at a place that i shouldnt be at…almost like spying into their secrets, their deepest secrets.

But not only staring at theirs…
But also to my own secrets…well i really dont have any…i think aspergers have a hard time dealing with that too.

But anyways, i feel intimidated, i feel like a part of my privacy has been invaded somehow.

And you know,privacy is a really important part for aspies, i really hate when my mom or my boyfriend go to the bathroom and they dont close the door. I mean what the hell is wrong with you guys?!

But yeah, i really dont know how to make things easier in that sense, because i really can deal with a couple of seconds into eye contact but no more than thay, perhaps only with my mom but no more than that, its a real difficulty in general…hate it…
Help me out with your comments if you hace a way to make changes or dealing with it better, let me know please and that way we can help each other too.

Thanks for following aspiphany! Keep up with me on this.
Kisses, Lorien


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Topic 1: Hypersensitivity Sight


Topic 1: Hypersensitivity Sight

We continue describing the sensitivity of my senses, in this article, we will specifically talk about the sight.

As an Asperger, the lights are somewhat uncomfortable or even painful.

1.-TV tires me quickly, it makes my forehead and eyes hurt, so I do not see many movies or series.

  1. Lights in concerts also tend to tire me, not to the point of pain but only discomfort after a while.
  2. The cell phone and computers make my eyes turn red.

I think that sight is one of my least sensitive senses, maybe that’s why I’m a professional graphic designer.

If you feel identified with these sgnos, I ask you to write it in the comments since I am very interested to hear you be asperger or not.

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La lista de la ansiedad

Cosas que de verdad…odio.

  1. Texturas cremosas sobre piel mojada.
  2. Sonido de gente masticando.
  3. Padrastros en los dedos.
  4. Etiquetas en la ropa.
  5. Sábanas o colchas brillosas y resbalosas.
  6. Sonido matutino (cualquier tipo de sonido).
  7. Luces de autos patrulla.
  8. Arrugas en las cobijas de la cama.
  9. Perfumes (todos tipos).
  10. Chamarras con forro brilloso.
  11. Tener calor, llegar a un lugar frío y sentir escalofríos.
  12. Ropa casual en casa.
  13. Sudar y aguantar la ropa caliente.
  14. Jabón (en la ropa, fuera de la ducha, restos de jabón en la piel).
  15. El olor a detergente de ropa.
  16. Jeans con texturas muy gruesas.
  17. Panties que no sean de algodón.
  18. Demasiada proximidad con personas.
  19. Sonido de envolturas metálicas.
  20. Suciedad en general.
  21. Lunares en mi piel o en pieles ajenas.
  22. Sonido de perros lamiéndose.
  23. Jabón líquido.
  24. Cabello con cremas o sprays y dormir con el cabello sobre la cara.
  25. Desodorantes con alcohol.
  26. Exprimir esponjas mojadas.
  27. Suero del queso.
  28. Desodorantes de auto y baño.
  29. Que te laves las manos y al agarrar la toalla de papel y alzar las manos se te metan debajo de las mangas las gotas de agua.
  30. Ropa mojada.
  31. Desodorante de baño.
  32. Chocolate en las muelas porque me duelen después de algunos segundos.
  33. Calcetines que no sean de algodón.
  34. Refrescos con demasiado gas porque me salpican la cara.
  35. Dedos pegajosos.
  36. Tocar dinero porque el dinero es sucio.
  37. Las marcas en la piel que dejan los elásticos de los calcetines y sostenes.
  38. Que los curitas dejen marcas rojas en la piel:
  39. Que los curitas dejen partes pegajosas de color oscuro.
  40. La baba de los perros.
  41. El olor a sudor de los gimnasios.
  42. La gripe.
  43. Pijamas sin resorte en la parte de los tobillos porque se sube mientras duermes y da frío.
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